Anti-Advice

Never give advice. Wise men don't need advice. Fools won't take it

Gravity

"Falling in love is one of the most irrational behaviors or brain states imaginable for both men and women"

Ourselves

When you try to show others you're [.good.kind.smart.evil.cool.], in fact you're demonstrating to yourself because you don't beleve it.

Make things happen

Getting things done is not the same as making things happen. You can:

• …reply to emails
• …pay the bills 
• …cross off to-do’s
• …fulfill your obligation 
• …repeat what you heard 
• …go with the flow 
• …anticipate roadblocks 
• …aim for “good enough”

 Or you can:

•  …organize a community 
• …take a risk 
• …set ambitious goals 
• …give more than you take
•  …change perceptions 
• …forge a new path 
• …create possibility
•  …demand excellence 

 "Don’t worry too much about getting things done.Make things happen! "

Conflict

In all arguments, both solvable and perpetual, no one is ever right. There is no absolute reality in conflict, only two subjective realities.

Fundamental error: believing that the fight is all other's fault.

Changes

People can change only if they feel that they are basically liked and accepted as they are. When people feel criticized, disliked, and unappreciated they are unable to change.
Instead, they feel under siege and dig in to protect themselves.